How much time do you spend thinking about things that you wind up not doing? This morning (it's been a busy day already!) I had a really interesting conversation about men's internal dialog... all the stuff they fantasize about, worry about, plan on...
...but never do.
For dudes, a lot of it is sexual. For women? I don't know.
Was I talking to a group of people with unusually active imaginations? Or do you do it too? How much time do YOU spend thinking about stuff you'll never act on. How much of it involves sex?
Love to all. But not, not that way.
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I certainly think about a lot of stuff like that. Lately, it's been more along the lines of what might have happened with a particular girl at a particular time. Not that I'm unhappy with my wife, but just I wonder how life would have been different had I made choices at different points. Usually involving those choices which would have got me into bed with girls I never slept with actually.
So yes, it all comes back to sex doesn't it.
-Fruey
All the time. and sex? all the time too. I'm not a nympho, It's biology.
Way too much! And sex - oh yeah! It's not biology, I'm just a nympho.
pretty often. The problem with me is the little switch in my brain that is supposed to make sure it STAYS an internal dialog is often broken. I'm known for saying something embarassing and thinking about it later.
I think about sex every 3.2 seconds. There goes another nasty thought.... and.... another... well, you get the idea...
All. The. Time. Most recently my thoughts have been about visiting Kenya. But sure - I think about all sorts of stuff I'll never act on - I dont think it's a "guy" thing as much as I think it's a "human" thing. Although sometimes I find it hard to believe that men and women are, indeed, part of the same species.
As for sex, sometimes I think about it a lot, and then other times not; just depends on my day, I guess. Oh, and then there's the internal dialogue DURING sex. Yeah.
Now THAT'S something I didn't think about... the internal dialog DURING sex.
Interesting!
I'd have to say that the men do not have the sexual imagination cornered. I do my fair share of thinking about it, too.
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